Cont. from coco eyes?

everytime I call the mortage company they will not answer questions or give me information because I am not him. and I went through the closing papers and I am not listed as a co-borrower, actually my information is not even on any of the doents. plus some people got it wrong, he's like he wants to be free and I'm not going to beg and plea to someone to be with me. we have two kids together I don't need a grown man as a third. he feels that we can be seperated and live in the same house which is not emotionally possible. even today I told him to spend some time with his kids since he works 3-11:30pm mon-fri. and he said he doesn't feel like it as he got ready to go to his friends house. I really don't know what to do, but I do know I am sick of him being a self centerd jerk but paints a pretty picture to the world. I'm tired of giving my all and he gives 2%. please someone help